Ahhh yes this is quite the dilemma… sometimes more may not be the merrier. One long-distance suitor and one confusing suitor. Neither ideal.
Let’s start with the Kansas fella. The first thing you need to do is ask yourself if you’re up for a long distance relationship. Like truly up for it. Do you have the money and time to put into making it work? For long distance to be successful you have to be 110% invested and just by the fact that you say you like two people may show that you are not fully ready to commit just yet to someone so far away. But of course these are questions you have to ask yourself, not me!
Now for Florida man. It sounds like a communication issue… CLASSIC. Before you get more involved I think you should talk to him. I know it’s sometimes uncomfortable and definitely scary but you have to ask him the questions. Be confident enough to be okay with getting rejected (I know that’s easier said then done). I’ve done it before, actually twice. I literally told guys “hey I like you and I just need to know if you feel the same or if I should move on.” If they say no then good thing you didn’t waste any more time!! And if he says he likes you too, well then you will have to see where things go.
If you decide you are ready for long distance AND Florida man says he likes you back, well I guess we have a new Bachelorette ladies and gentleman!!! Tune in Monday night to see what happens.